I love this song. It's an Arabic love song which the only phase I recognize is, Fi kooli makan, and I think means in the whole world and the title of the song which I think meas her eyes and I personally prefer his :)
Friday, May 18, 2012
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Dress code for cyber social communities.
Suddenly out of nowhere all the articles talking about how "professional" ones must appear in Facebook! even it has been translated to Persian and appeared in few sites and blogs. First I thought it is a new joke may be an April's fool one.Then ask myself whether Zuckerberg wants to change the direction of FB toward a professional site like Linkedin?
Otherwise it is ridicules to expect people be a "nerdish" nerd in a fun site. People in my FB list have different background and different profession and that doesn't make any sense at all to write something technical and share it with my friend who's e.g. an artist. It's true in opposite way I don't want to know anything about cubism when I detest it and won't be able to admire. I never ever dare to post or write a joke or something about my feeling into Linkedin and share it with my professional "buddies".
If it's not Zuckerberg's willing to make FB a professorial site then it's a conspiracy set by nerds to make everybody act the same way and state a new kind of dictatorship simply because they can not distinguish a simple rule that FB is a fun place and Linkedin is a work place and mixing these two means the person is not certainly a professional. Being professional means understanding that our brain and mind needs to be exposed in different environment and act suitable to the so called environment. It's exactly like dress code. It's a mutual understanding that no one will appear in bikini/speedo in their dissertation as well as not showing up with tux in beach area. Ones pretend being professional in FB is as ridiculous as making jokes in Linkedin.
We're humans and certainly not robots who think, act and work just about one topic. If I am a manager and had happened to be in someone's both FB and Linkedin and if they're the same then I wouldn't hire such a one dimensional minded person. This is a sign of not knowing the dress code for different occasions or being a big fat hypocrite who wants to fool me.
I love technology and I love what I'm doing in spite of all the difficulties I've been faced by nonprofessionals but like any other person I like a place to interact with others like my old family friends who's a famous psychologist, my cousin who's an artist or my old school mate who's a physician. If someone is not be able to understand the simple rule and wants to judge me base on my FB then that's their confusion problem not mine. Why on earth I have to change my attitude and behavior because some people simply refuse to appreciate me acting professional in cyber communities .
Bottom line please do understand that people trying to have a tick border line between their Professional life and their hobbies and do not make them to mix. Ones should be able to find something in common with a friend who's a taxi driver or a teacher or so. Life is not just people who are working in the same field like us. In everyday life we have to be able to interact with a cab driver, a baker and waitress and so. And of course not all of us can afford the luxury of being as nerd as Sheldon Copper or Howard Wolowitz to be mocked and hated by the rest of the society.
Let's be professional and not appear in Bikini in a dissertation as well as not wearing a nightgown in beach. Everything has a dress code and social community as well.
Otherwise it is ridicules to expect people be a "nerdish" nerd in a fun site. People in my FB list have different background and different profession and that doesn't make any sense at all to write something technical and share it with my friend who's e.g. an artist. It's true in opposite way I don't want to know anything about cubism when I detest it and won't be able to admire. I never ever dare to post or write a joke or something about my feeling into Linkedin and share it with my professional "buddies".
If it's not Zuckerberg's willing to make FB a professorial site then it's a conspiracy set by nerds to make everybody act the same way and state a new kind of dictatorship simply because they can not distinguish a simple rule that FB is a fun place and Linkedin is a work place and mixing these two means the person is not certainly a professional. Being professional means understanding that our brain and mind needs to be exposed in different environment and act suitable to the so called environment. It's exactly like dress code. It's a mutual understanding that no one will appear in bikini/speedo in their dissertation as well as not showing up with tux in beach area. Ones pretend being professional in FB is as ridiculous as making jokes in Linkedin.
We're humans and certainly not robots who think, act and work just about one topic. If I am a manager and had happened to be in someone's both FB and Linkedin and if they're the same then I wouldn't hire such a one dimensional minded person. This is a sign of not knowing the dress code for different occasions or being a big fat hypocrite who wants to fool me.
I love technology and I love what I'm doing in spite of all the difficulties I've been faced by nonprofessionals but like any other person I like a place to interact with others like my old family friends who's a famous psychologist, my cousin who's an artist or my old school mate who's a physician. If someone is not be able to understand the simple rule and wants to judge me base on my FB then that's their confusion problem not mine. Why on earth I have to change my attitude and behavior because some people simply refuse to appreciate me acting professional in cyber communities .
Bottom line please do understand that people trying to have a tick border line between their Professional life and their hobbies and do not make them to mix. Ones should be able to find something in common with a friend who's a taxi driver or a teacher or so. Life is not just people who are working in the same field like us. In everyday life we have to be able to interact with a cab driver, a baker and waitress and so. And of course not all of us can afford the luxury of being as nerd as Sheldon Copper or Howard Wolowitz to be mocked and hated by the rest of the society.
Let's be professional and not appear in Bikini in a dissertation as well as not wearing a nightgown in beach. Everything has a dress code and social community as well.
Friday, October 28, 2011
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